
photo by Emmli
When I was in college, I became quite the snot. Seriously bitchy in certain circumstances – I was infected with a bad hipster virus, and it made me very arrogant about certain, hipstery-things.
One of the manifestations of this was that my friends and I would go to dance clubs and spend at least part of the time making fun of how people were dancing. Not that we were great dancers, by any stretch of the imagination, but for whatever reason, when we got bored with the music, it’s what we would do.
It took me a while to realize what this was doing to me. The longer I went along with this, the more and more self-conscious I became about dancing. I loved going to clubs and dancing, but it was starting to really affect me. Going out and doing one of my favorite things was no longer fun. It just made me sad, after a point, and extremely self-conscious. So, I decided it was time for an attitude adjustment. I stopped making fun of people, and instead focused on how the music made me feel, which is generally pretty damn happy. I started to enjoy dancing again, and more importantly, I stopped feeling self-conscious about it.
Snark can bite back. Drop it, and you’ll probably find yourself feeling less self-conscious yourself.
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